God created each of us the way He wanted us. Just like Adam and Eve were made in God's image, so where we. Just as with Adam and Eve, we stray from God's plan.
We have a free will as a gift from God, and His guidance if we seek it. He allows us to be what we choose to be. If we follow God's plan, we are happy, but if we don't, it is another story.
In the process of being who we are, there are a number of things that fit into the equation, and must be considered.
The first one is. You cannot be who others say you should be, and others cannot be how you expect. You must live your life and and not someone else's.
When you judge someone else, what you are really doing, is telling God that He messed up when He created that person. Pay no attention to those who judge you, it is only God's judgment that counts.
When you are unhappy about who you are, and what you have, again you are blaming God and saying He messed up. We are what we decide to be by our choice to follow God, or satan.
You cannot change other people, that is God's job. If you are supposed to speak to someone about a particular thing, the Holy Spirit will tell you what to say, and He will cause that person to listen.
It all boils down to this. If you give each day to the Lord, and follow where He leads, you will have a good life, because He goes before you to clear the path. Just be who He created you to be. If He wants you to do something else, He will put it in your heart. Be patient and listen for His voice. It is also a very good idea to study His word regularly. Have a blessed day. Praise the Lord!
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Prayer of Salvation
Lord Jesus, I thank you for what you did on the cross for me. Your blood washed away all my sins, by your stripes I was healed, your death and resurrection brought me salvation. Please forgive my sins, and come into my heart as my personal Savior.
Thank You Lord